August 29, 2010 Sermon – Fourteenth Sunday after Pentecost
Thursday, 2. September 2010 10:49 | Author:gracesiloam
Luke 14
Humility is notoriously elusive. That’s why, of all the hard sayings of Jesus, few are harder than those about humility. Think about what we’ve just heard from Luke. Jesus gets to eat dinner at a Pharisee’s house. And he watches how some guests make a beeline for the places of honor. But Jesus says, “When you get asked to a wedding banquet, don’t rush to the places of honor. The chances are you’ll be asked to shift down for somebody else: Go and sit at the edge of the bench at the bottom, and when the host comes, he’ll bump you up so you sit next to him.”
“All who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”
So what is humility here?
Perhaps it’s best to just give up the quest for humility. Because no deliberate act of the will can make it happen. Humility has a notorious paradox: It’s impossible to generate without killing it in the process. As soon as you think you’ve got it, you lose it by virtue of thinking you have it! No wonder Nietzsche saw humility as a false virtue that merely conceals the crookedness of its holder. Maybe all humility is false humility. Maybe there just isn’t a true version.
Or are we missing something, something quite simple?
Back to the parable. Notice a movement, a momentum that runs right through this story. And it comes to the surface in the word “invite.” Jesus gets invited to the Pharisee’s house; here in our parable the word “invite” occurs four times. Later Jesus tells us about who and how to invite others to dinner; then the parable of the giant banquet, another story of invitation. The momentum of invitation. Humility now looks very different.
Exaltation comes by invitation only, and the humble are those who never forget it.
Isn’t this what exposes all those ploys that parade as humility, exposes them as just that, mere ploys, devices, manipulative maneuvers to slide our way to the top. The person at the lowest place hears the call of the host; he’s swept up by an out-of-the-blue invitation, swept to the top by outrageous grace. Humility is indeed about knowing our place — knowing our place in the stream of grace. And exaltation is thrown in, free of charge.
Exaltation comes by invitation only, and the humble are those who never forget it.
What does this mean?
At least two things. First, it means that the humble don’t get captivated by their reputation. Why do the VIPs in the parable aim for the places of honor? Because they’ve got a religious reputation to think about, a position to maintain, a rank to live up to. They have to be seen. There’s a persona to cultivate, a status to preserve in the face of those who matter, a reputation to cling to at all costs.
And so the anxious self-questioning is bound to start up: “Am I coming across in the right way? Am I respected? Am I highly regarded? Am I credible? Am I getting known in the circles that matter?” (The answer to all these questions, by the way, is usually “no.”) It’s as if we’re always trying to step outside ourselves to monitor our performance, check up on how we’re being received. Life can never be fully lived because I’m always nervously looking over my shoulder, always on the defensive against the merest hint of a rumor, a misrepresentation, or a criticism. People like this miss out on the banquet of the kingdom because they can’t stop worrying whether they look the part.
This parable explodes self-scrutiny. It’s a vision of the church as a community where reputation is constantly being thrown to the wind. The humble can sit at the last spot, because in the end they know they are known, known and loved by the eternal God, infinitely better known than they know themselves, and yet, also invited to keep company with this same God, this same, strange God who invites us to sit next to his Son at the feast.
Exaltation comes by invitation only, and the humble never forget it.
Second, at the feast of the kingdom, the humble can’t get captivated by their reputation because they’ve been captivated by the host. The humble, we might say, are eccentric. Not so much weird (though most of them are) but ex-centric — ex-centered, living out of a center beyond themselves. They seem to be sustained from beyond, energized from outside, captivated from without. They’ve developed what you might call ex-centered attention.
I think of sitting by a running stream, or watching the waves crash on the beach, it seems I could gaze into the water for hours of unselfconscious fascination; or think of the 16-year-old at the party suddenly mesmerized by the blue eyes on the other side of the room; or the nurse in the makeshift hospital in Darfur, staring into the eyes of a newly orphaned baby whose mother has just died of AIDS.
And think of the people you’ve known who have had the most impact on your life: very likely they’re the ones who could look you in the eye and treat you as if no one else were in the room. People like that have what William Blake called “single vision.” They see things the way they really are because they’re not always trying to suck everything into the vortex of their own agendas. They’ve got a kind of flexibility and suppleness that can reach you as you are. Because they’re people who’ve had their insides turned out; pulled from beyond; allured, enchanted, captivated by the host of the feast.
Think of the guest who takes the lowest place at the feast: for them, nothing matters more than hearing the invitation, hearing the voice of the host: “Friend, move up higher.”
And think about this service of worship where everything is, in the last resort, designed to help us do just that, to hear that voice: just for this time, not to tug everything around us into our own project-of-the-moment;
Just for a minute, not to magnetize everyone else into our pressing concerns; just for a second, to imagine that the universe was not created to revolve around my passions but around the passions of the One who made it. The God who is by nature ex-centric.
What else are we here for, if not to get caught up in the Spirit’s eccentricity: the ecstatic rush of the Spirit towards the Son?
What else are we here for, if not to get caught up in the Son’s eccentricity, as he is eternally spellbound by his Father, and invites us to be likewise spellbound?
What else are we here for if not to be captured again by his voice, so captivating — the voice of Jesus Christ, the host of the feast?
Perhaps it’s a voice we may not have heard very clearly for a while, amidst all our self-monitoring. I don’t know. But we can be sure this voice speaks here at this feast, alluring, enticing us: “Friend, come up higher.” The voice of the one who was humbled and exalted; humbled and shamed in nakedness and exalted to the eternal feast of the Father. It is he who invites us to come to His table and feast.
Amen.
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